Oh my gosh, thank you for telling me this. I definitely believe it is a sleep disorder. However, I also believe he has deep seated issues with women and his own narcissism that led to controlling abusive behavior outside of the bedroom. I am sorry that you went through this, although it is great he is getting treatment. Since it is behavior they don’t necessarily remember, I feel like they have to take our word for it, and that is hard for certain types of men. (again, no excuses for that misogyny). Best of luck to you….